T&C

Together with our families

Tom&Cara

Two stories, one English summer afternoon.

Saturday, the twelfth of June

Two Thousand and Twenty Seven

Hartwell Manor, Oxfordshire

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Days
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Tom and Cara touching foreheads in the last of the sunset
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We can't wait to celebrate with you.

T & C

Our story

Different paths,
beautifully brought together.

From a borrowed umbrella to a promise above the sea. Nine years, and the best of it still ahead.

Cara and Tom beside a vintage car on the wedding morning

The details

  • Ceremony

    1.00 PM

  • Reception

    4.30 PM

  • Venue

    Hartwell Manor

  • Gifts

    With love

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Cara and Tom laughing through the window of the wedding car

Order of the day

Saturday, hour by hour

12:30

Arrival

Received in the Long Gallery. Seated by ten to one.

13:00

The ceremony

In the manor chapel. Thirty five minutes.

13:45

Champagne on the lawn

Drinks, canapés, photographs.

16:00

Wedding breakfast

Dinner served in the orangery.

19:00

Speeches

Kindly brief. Allegedly.

20:00

First dance

Followed immediately by everyone else.

00:30

Carriages

A last waltz, sparklers, and home.

The venue

Hartwell Manor

Hartwell Manor at dusk

A seventeenth-century manor in eleven acres of walled rose gardens.

Hartwell Lane, Oxfordshire, OX9 4TQ

Where to stay

Make a weekend of it

On site

Hartwell Manor Rooms

Twenty two rooms held under 'Tom & Cara' until 1 April 2027.

From £210 per night

1.2 miles

The Rose & Crown

A beamed village inn, ten minutes by taxi.

From £120 per night

4 miles

Thame Town Hotels

Larger hotels for families. Shuttle on request.

From £95 per night

With love

Gifts

Your presence is the whole of it. Should you wish to mark the day, we are saving quietly towards a honeymoon in Kyoto.

A gift list will be shared closer to the day.

Good to know

Questions, answered

tomandcara@example.com

Kindly reply

By 1st April 2027

Will you be attending?

Questions? Write to tomandcara@example.com

Until June

“Come as you are, stay as long as the candles last, and dance until the garden goes quiet.”

T&C

Tom & Cara

Saturday, the twelfth of June · Hartwell Manor, Oxfordshire